You might be so desperate when it comes to trying to figure out what’s going on in your man’s brain that you might want to take out an ice pick and just hack your way to the insides of his mind – and we advise you not to do that. Know that there are better and less violent ways to get your man to really open up to you about what’s on his mind. Or at the very least, there are better ways for you to sneak around and figure out what he’s really thinking without even having him say anything.
1. “WHY IS MY GIRL JUST SO EMOTIONAL ALL OF THE TIME?”
Sometimes, you might have a tendency to overreact in his eyes. You might be feeling emotional even when he feels like there’s no reason to be. And that’s when he’s going to just shut up and keep quiet. He doesn’t want to aggravate the situation.
2. “I WISH SHE COULD GIVE ME A HINT ON WHAT I’M SUPPOSED TO DO.”
He doesn’t want you to know that he doesn’t have a clue on what to do in your relationship. And even though he wants you to lead the way, he wouldn’t want to admit it.
3. “I REALLY LOVE YOU… BUT THAT OTHER GIRL IS PRETTY CUTE.”
You’re in love. You’re in a committed relationship with one another. But given that, you should know that it’s still possible for him to find other girls attractive. Of course, he would never admit this to you because it would cause too much drama. But as long as he doesn’t act on his attraction, there should be no problem.
4. “STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT EVERYTHING!”
Sometimes, the nagging can really get out of hand. And when it does, it can really get on his nerves. But he wouldn’t want to make you erupt even further; so he’s just going to keep his feelings to himself. He doesn’t want to be adding any fuel to the fire.
5. “YOU DEFINITELY WANT ME MORE THAN I WANT YOU.”
Naturally, this is something that he would never tell you. Whether this is true or not is irrelevant. Even if he thinks that you do want him more than he wants you, he would never let you know that. He wouldn’t want to come off as completely narcissistic and arrogant.